How to talk to girls major help here please?

K I need help, girls tend to like me but I never know what to talk about with them. I'm not a very social person to begin with so I'm not very talkative I tend to just follow And occasionally talk is that creepy. �No one really knows me though I'm a sweet guy but unfortunately I have mood swing which I cant really control and I think it tend to fend girls away cause I usually prefer to suffer on my own rather than get anyone involved. �Over all though I'm country with a little Chicago mobster In me. I love the outdoors and country music singing but I love playing blues as a musician. I sing and play. I'm tall decent hair length ive got some muscles on me stronger than normal but I'm skinny so it doesn't show much till you see me In action. But I've heard people say they're scared of me and some seem to back away at moments im just confused and plus I have a reputation as a bit of a player yet never had a girlfriend. Though I like to cuddle just cause I like to hold someone and all the girls always think cause just want sex but to be honest sex isn't that important to me. I just want a country girl not afraid to get a little and to hold at night under the stars what can I do to talk to girls better and Not feel like all of them are afraid of me